So we have been waiting for about 15 months now, and still not one contact. Becoming parents really does not seem real to me anymore. Family and friends don't really ask for updates anymore, and in a way that is good since there is nothing to update. But it makes me feel like they don't believe it is gonna happen either.
Maybe I am just feeling bad because I have a cold and have been on the couch for the past three days. Yes, that must be it.
that would frustrate me too. Maybe your friends and family are just giving you some space...it was hard to get those questions when we were waiting too; I could see how it would be hard to have those questions stop. I hope you hear something soon.
ReplyDeleteI like to think that people stop asking because they don't want to add insult to injury knowing how hard the wait must be. I am sure that those you've told love and care about you and remain hopeful for you. Reach out to them if you are feeling the need to connect.
ReplyDeleteThanks guys. I am sure you know how it is to feel such conflicting emotions during this great unknown called "waiting"
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